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| + | __NOTOC__ | ||
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| + | == Example Walkthrough (6 Weeks) — Project: ''Center & Circle'' == | ||
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| + | ''This is a fictional-but-realistic walkthrough showing how one person uses the ChatGPT project titled '''Center & Circle''' over several weeks. It demonstrates how Threads '''T.1–T.10''' get used in practice.'' | ||
| + | |||
| + | Think of the walkthrough as the '''movie trailer''' for the playbook. It turns what could feel like a dry weekly checklist into a living sequence of real-life moves, drift, stress, flares, overload, repairs, renewal, and shows how the system keeps steering anyway. The story does not replace the workflow; it '''proves''' the workflow works under normal messy conditions. | ||
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| + | Across six weeks, the user goes from ''“I’m fine… but I’m sliding”'' to ''“I can steer.”'' Each week is a small victory: | ||
| + | |||
| + | * '''Week 1: Drift gets caught early.''' Nothing is on fire, but sleep and focus are quietly degrading. Instead of panic or grand goals, the user makes one surgical change: ''phone out of the bedroom.'' Tiny move, huge leverage. | ||
| + | * '''Week 2: A flare hits, and the system doesn’t collapse.''' Pain threatens a cascade (less movement → worse mood → worse sleep). The user adds redundancy: a minimum-walk Plan B and captures it in the Risk Register, turning fragility into resilience. | ||
| + | * '''Week 3: The Circle gets warmed before loneliness becomes a crisis.''' Social connection is thinning. The user treats connection like infrastructure: one weekly warm touchpoint plus a simple scaffolding map and templates. | ||
| + | * '''Week 4: Micro-friction gets repaired fast.''' Instead of stewing, the user uses a “fast repair” script to fix a small crack while it’s still small. Mood improves because the emotional load stops compounding. | ||
| + | * '''Week 5: Overload gets exposed as “fake meaning.”''' Commitments expand, sleep wobbles, resentment rises. The user installs a stop-rule and reduces scope to protect capacity and long-term reliability. | ||
| + | * '''Week 6: The system evolves instead of thrashing.''' A monthly review consolidates learning: keep what works, stop what doesn’t, refresh one risk row, and choose one small “next upgrade.” It feels like leveling up, calm, real, earned. | ||
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| + | {| class="wikitable" style="width:100%;" | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | ! What the Story Teaches (Without Lecturing) | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | The walkthrough trains pattern recognition: '''drift → tiny fix''', '''flare → Plan B''', '''isolation → warm touchpoint''', '''friction → fast repair''', '''overload → stop-rule''', '''review → renewal''. Instead of “try harder,” the user learns how to steer with small moves. | ||
| + | |} | ||
| + | |||
| + | ---- | ||
| + | |||
| + | == 10-Layer Walkthrough Alignment (Life~Meaning 1–10) == | ||
| + | The playbook aligns to '''10 layers'''. This walkthrough shows how the same weekly loop protects lower-layer coherence (Layers 1–7) while also protecting social stability and long-horizon continuity (Layers 8–10). | ||
| + | |||
| + | Key rule used in this walkthrough: | ||
| + | * '''Center''' mostly protects Layers 1–7 (internal coherence, capacity, recovery, attention). | ||
| + | * '''Circle''' mostly protects Layers 8–10 (relationships, identity across time, stewardship of long-lived systems). | ||
| + | * When the week is '''Circle''', W.3 names a '''horizon''': Layer 8 (relationships now), Layer 9 (identity/legacy across time), or Layer 10 (stewardship for people and planet). | ||
| + | |||
| + | {| class="wikitable" style="width:100%;" | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | ! Life~Meaning Layer (1–10) !! What it means in plain terms !! Where it appears in this Walkthrough | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | '''Layer 1: Thermodynamic Coherence''' || Energy, sleep, basics, and friction control so the system doesn’t unravel || Week 1 phone out of bedroom; Week 2 walk habit; T.2 low-energy defaults | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | '''Layer 2: Staying In Balance (''Allostasis & Homeostasis'')''' || Regulation plus anticipating demand (catch drift early) || Every week’s W.1 Scan + W.2 Vital Signals; T.9 barriers; early-warning thinking in Weeks 1–2 | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | '''Layer 3: Morphogenesis & Regeneration''' || Repair, recovery, maintenance routines that preserve form over time || Week 2 flare response; Week 5 scope reduction to preserve recovery; T.2 appointments/recovery defaults; T.10 “what helped” | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | '''Layer 4: From Persistence to Membership''' || Stability improves when you belong and play roles without “cancer dynamics” (unchecked overload) || Week 3–4 Circle maintenance; Week 5 commitments as load vs scaffolding; fast repair protects membership | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | '''Layer 5: Predictive World-Models''' || “What-if” simulation and learning from experiments || Every week’s W.4 Micro-Experiment; T.1; T.10 Signal → Change → Result | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | '''Layer 6: Reward, Avoidance, Reinforcement Learning''' || Habits update via felt value, stop-rules, and cost/benefit learning || Week 1 environment beats willpower; Week 5 stop-rule; “KEEP/TWEAK/DROP” loop in T.10 | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | '''Layer 7: Conscious Moments & Binding''' || Attention, clarity, felt presence, and unified “now” that can steer || Week 1 focus/clarity signal; Week 4 rumination reduction; noticing numbness/overload in W.1 Scan | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | '''Layer 8: Social Meaning''' || Shared reality, roles, language, relationship trust and “warmth” || Week 3 warm touchpoint; Week 4 relationship maintenance; T.4–T.6; W.5 touchpoint | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | '''Layer 9: Narrative Identity & Generativity''' || Coherence across years, legacy scaffolds, “what I’m building” || Week 6 review + renewal; T.8 upgradeable identity; T.7 purposeful projects | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | '''Layer 10: Caring for the Future (People and Planet)''' || Stewardship of long-lived systems (family, institutions, knowledge commons, ecology) || Week 6 adds a small stewardship move + a long-horizon risk row; T.9 includes long-horizon risks; T.7 horizon labeling | ||
| + | |} | ||
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| − | ! | + | ! Week Summary (Layer Lens) |
|- | |- | ||
| − | | | + | | This 6-week story covers the full layer ladder: Center work (Layers 1–7), Circle work (Layer 8), then identity and stewardship (Layers 9–10). The weekly loop stays the same, but the horizon gets named and protected. |
|} | |} | ||
| − | == | + | == Why This Walkthrough Works == |
| + | The walkthrough works because it is a '''translation layer''' between the playbook’s structure and real life. A user can understand W.1–W.7 intellectually, but still struggle to apply it when the week is messy. The story shows the playbook being used in ordinary conditions, drift, stress, pain, isolation, friction, overload, and demonstrates how the loop keeps functioning without needing a perfect week. That makes the system feel '''usable''', not aspirational. | ||
| + | |||
| + | It also makes the hidden logic obvious: why the playbook forces a small number of vital signals (so you don’t try to fix everything), why it insists on choosing '''Center vs Circle''' (so you don’t thrash), why it includes the Risk Register (so you don’t get wiped out by single points of failure), and why it ends with the Learning Log (so the system actually learns). The story quietly teaches that stability comes from '''course-corrections''', not heroics. | ||
| − | + | Finally, the walkthrough gives the reader confidence and permission: confidence that the steps work, and permission to keep everything small. The big takeaway is that you don’t need a new identity or a “perfect plan.” You need one dial, one experiment, one touchpoint, one backup, and one log line, repeated weekly until your life starts steering itself. | |
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* '''Only switch threads when needed:''' T.1–T.8 (deep work), T.9 (Risk Register update), T.10 (Learning Log row) | * '''Only switch threads when needed:''' T.1–T.8 (deep work), T.9 (Risk Register update), T.10 (Learning Log row) | ||
* '''End every week by writing one row into:''' '''T.10 Thread: Learning Log''' | * '''End every week by writing one row into:''' '''T.10 Thread: Learning Log''' | ||
| + | * '''NEW (Circle weeks):''' In W.3, name the horizon: Layer 8 (relationships), Layer 9 (legacy), or Layer 10 (stewardship) | ||
---- | ---- | ||
| − | == Walkthrough | + | == Walkthrough Flow == |
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</pre> | </pre> | ||
| − | ; Week 3 — “Warm the Circle” (Circle) | + | ; Week 3 — “Warm the Circle” (Circle, Horizon: Layer 8) |
<pre> | <pre> | ||
| − | [T.0] Scan → Signals → Circle → Micro-Experiment | + | [T.0] Scan → Signals → Circle (Layer 8) → Micro-Experiment |
→ [T.4] Social Value menu + boundaries | → [T.4] Social Value menu + boundaries | ||
→ [T.5] Scaffolding map + templates + anchor | → [T.5] Scaffolding map + templates + anchor | ||
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</pre> | </pre> | ||
| − | ; Week 4 — “Repair Fast” (Circle) | + | ; Week 4 — “Repair Fast” (Circle, Horizon: Layer 8) |
<pre> | <pre> | ||
| − | [T.0] Scan → Signals → Circle → Micro-Experiment | + | [T.0] Scan → Signals → Circle (Layer 8) → Micro-Experiment |
→ [T.6] Relationship Maintenance rotation + fast repair | → [T.6] Relationship Maintenance rotation + fast repair | ||
→ [T.5] (optional: reuse templates / who-to-call) | → [T.5] (optional: reuse templates / who-to-call) | ||
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</pre> | </pre> | ||
| − | ; Week 6 — “Review + Renewal” ( | + | ; Week 6 — “Review + Renewal” (Circle Horizons: Layer 9 + Layer 10) |
<pre> | <pre> | ||
[T.0] Route into review mode | [T.0] Route into review mode | ||
→ [T.8] Review + Renewal scorecard + keep/stop/start | → [T.8] Review + Renewal scorecard + keep/stop/start | ||
| − | → [T.9] (optional: stale check → refresh 1 row) | + | → [T.7] (optional) Horizon labeling: Layer 9 + Layer 10 |
| + | → [T.9] (optional: stale check → refresh 1 row, include long-horizon risk if present) | ||
→ [T.10] Log row | → [T.10] Log row | ||
</pre> | </pre> | ||
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| 2026-02-14 || Review || Stability Score || T.0, T.8, T.9, T.10 || Monthly review + next-version list | | 2026-02-14 || Review || Stability Score || T.0, T.8, T.9, T.10 || Monthly review + next-version list | ||
| + | |} | ||
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| + | {| class="wikitable" style="width:100%;" | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | ! Week Summary Table (Layers + Horizon) | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | ! Week Ending !! Primary Layers Protected !! Horizon (if Circle) !! Why it matters | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | 2026-01-10 || L1, L2, L5, L6, L7 || N/A || Energy + attention stabilized by environment change; learning loop starts | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | 2026-01-17 || L2, L3, L5, L6 || N/A || Flare-proofing prevents cascade; Plan B reduces brittleness | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | 2026-01-24 || L4, L8 || Layer 8 || Warmth treated as infrastructure; scaffolding prevents isolation | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | 2026-01-31 || L7, L8 || Layer 8 || Rumination drops when repairs happen early; trust stays intact | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | 2026-02-07 || L1, L2, L4, L6 || N/A || Overload is treated as a “cancer dynamic” risk; stop-rule protects recovery | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | 2026-02-14 || L5, L9, L10 || Layer 9 + Layer 10 || Identity upgrades are consolidated; stewardship is made small and real | ||
|} | |} | ||
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== Week 1 (Week Ending 2026-01-10) — First “Real” Run == | == Week 1 (Week Ending 2026-01-10) — First “Real” Run == | ||
| − | === | + | === Our Story === |
| − | Week 1 starts with a classic situation: nothing is “on fire,” but the person feels a little more scattered than usual. Bedtime has drifted later, the phone keeps the brain “lit up,” and mornings feel foggy. That’s not a crisis | + | Week 1 starts with a classic situation: nothing is “on fire,” but the person feels a little more scattered than usual. Bedtime has drifted later, the phone keeps the brain “lit up,” and mornings feel foggy. That’s not a crisis, it’s '''drift'''. Drift is dangerous because it’s easy to ignore… until it suddenly becomes loud. |
So the playbook is used exactly as intended: run the process once, even imperfectly, and let the workflow surface the simplest stabilizing move. | So the playbook is used exactly as intended: run the process once, even imperfectly, and let the workflow surface the simplest stabilizing move. | ||
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* Use T.1 if the scan feels fuzzy; use T.2 to build “low-energy defaults.” | * Use T.1 if the scan feels fuzzy; use T.2 to build “low-energy defaults.” | ||
* Record first row in T.10. | * Record first row in T.10. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Life~Meaning Layer Lens (Week 1) === | ||
| + | * '''Layer 1:''' Energy and sleep stability are treated as load-bearing. | ||
| + | * '''Layer 2:''' Drift is caught early with vital signals (anticipation beats crisis). | ||
| + | * '''Layer 5–6:''' The micro-experiment creates learning, not resolutions. | ||
| + | * '''Layer 7:''' Focus/clarity is treated as a real stability signal, not “mood talk.” | ||
=== T.0 (Control Room) — What I paste === | === T.0 (Control Room) — What I paste === | ||
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== Week 2 (Week Ending 2026-01-17) — Add Redundancy + First T.9 Entry == | == Week 2 (Week Ending 2026-01-17) — Add Redundancy + First T.9 Entry == | ||
| − | === | + | === Our Story === |
Week 2 begins with a reality check: even if sleep improves, other systems can wobble. A pain flare shows up and threatens to knock out movement. The person notices an ugly pattern: when pain rises, movement drops; when movement drops, mood and sleep start wobbling again. That’s how a “fine week” turns into a bad one. | Week 2 begins with a reality check: even if sleep improves, other systems can wobble. A pain flare shows up and threatens to knock out movement. The person notices an ugly pattern: when pain rises, movement drops; when movement drops, mood and sleep start wobbling again. That’s how a “fine week” turns into a bad one. | ||
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=== Goal === | === Goal === | ||
* Keep Center emphasis, but add one “Plan B” backup so life is less brittle. | * Keep Center emphasis, but add one “Plan B” backup so life is less brittle. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Life~Meaning Layer Lens (Week 2) === | ||
| + | * '''Layer 2:''' Early warning signs are named and tracked. | ||
| + | * '''Layer 3:''' Repair and recovery are treated as form-preserving, not optional. | ||
| + | * '''Layer 5:''' A simple experiment tests a stabilizing move. | ||
| + | * '''Layer 6:''' The experiment is sized to succeed, so reinforcement learning can actually update. | ||
=== T.0 — Highlights === | === T.0 — Highlights === | ||
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== Week 3 (Week Ending 2026-01-24) — Shift to Circle: Social Value + Scaffolding == | == Week 3 (Week Ending 2026-01-24) — Shift to Circle: Social Value + Scaffolding == | ||
| − | === | + | === Our Story === |
| − | Week 3 is where the person realizes something important: even if the Center is improving, the Circle can quietly thin out. They aren’t in crisis | + | Week 3 is where the person realizes something important: even if the Center is improving, the Circle can quietly thin out. They aren’t in crisis, but they feel more alone than they want to be. Isolation rarely feels like a “problem” at first; it feels like “being busy.” Then, when stress hits, there’s nobody nearby to buffer it. |
| − | So the emphasis shifts to Circle. The vital signal becomes meaningful contact (not “likes,” not admin texts | + | So the emphasis shifts to Circle. The vital signal becomes meaningful contact (not “likes,” not admin texts, real warmth). The experiment is tiny: one warm touchpoint every Tuesday. |
=== Why This Week’s Approach Makes Sense (Rationale) === | === Why This Week’s Approach Makes Sense (Rationale) === | ||
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=== Emphasis === | === Emphasis === | ||
* '''Circle''' — meaningful contact predicts stability this week. | * '''Circle''' — meaningful contact predicts stability this week. | ||
| + | * '''Horizon (NEW): Layer 8''' — relationships and shared reality now (warmth, trust, membership). | ||
=== Vital Signal === | === Vital Signal === | ||
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=== Micro-Experiment (7 days) === | === Micro-Experiment (7 days) === | ||
* '''One warm touchpoint every Tuesday''' (10 minutes) | * '''One warm touchpoint every Tuesday''' (10 minutes) | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Life~Meaning Layer Lens (Week 3) === | ||
| + | * '''Layer 4:''' Membership is protected before the system gets brittle. | ||
| + | * '''Layer 8:''' Social meaning is treated as a stabilizer, not decoration. | ||
=== T.4 (Social Value) — Value menu + boundaries === | === T.4 (Social Value) — Value menu + boundaries === | ||
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== Week 4 (Week Ending 2026-01-31) — Relationship Maintenance + Fast Repair == | == Week 4 (Week Ending 2026-01-31) — Relationship Maintenance + Fast Repair == | ||
| − | === | + | === Our Story === |
| − | Week 4 is a subtle one: the person notices irritability rising. Nothing catastrophic happened | + | Week 4 is a subtle one: the person notices irritability rising. Nothing catastrophic happened, it’s accumulated friction. One relationship feels slightly “stiff,” and they find themselves replaying a conversation in their head. That replay loop is a signal: small cracks are forming. |
| − | Instead of waiting, they use the playbook to build a habit: repair one friction within 24 hours. The goal is not to win an argument | + | Instead of waiting, they use the playbook to build a habit: repair one friction within 24 hours. The goal is not to win an argument, it’s to prevent drift from becoming distance. |
=== Why This Week’s Approach Makes Sense (Rationale) === | === Why This Week’s Approach Makes Sense (Rationale) === | ||
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=== Micro-Experiment (7 days) === | === Micro-Experiment (7 days) === | ||
* '''Repair one friction within 24 hours''' (instead of stewing) | * '''Repair one friction within 24 hours''' (instead of stewing) | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Emphasis === | ||
| + | * '''Circle''' | ||
| + | * '''Horizon: Layer 8''' — keep trust warm; prevent small cracks from becoming social distance. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Life~Meaning Layer Lens (Week 4) === | ||
| + | * '''Layer 7:''' Rumination drops when repairs happen early (attention stays coherent). | ||
| + | * '''Layer 8:''' Relationship trust is maintained as infrastructure. | ||
=== T.6 (Relationship Maintenance) — Rotation + repair script === | === T.6 (Relationship Maintenance) — Rotation + repair script === | ||
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=== Example “fast repair” script === | === Example “fast repair” script === | ||
<pre> | <pre> | ||
| − | Hey | + | Hey, quick note. I think I came across sharper than I meant to earlier. |
Sorry about that. I’m dealing with some stress and it leaked out. | Sorry about that. I’m dealing with some stress and it leaked out. | ||
I value you, and I want us to be good. | I value you, and I want us to be good. | ||
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== Week 5 (Week Ending 2026-02-07) — Commitments Audit + Stop-Rule == | == Week 5 (Week Ending 2026-02-07) — Commitments Audit + Stop-Rule == | ||
| − | === | + | === Our Story === |
| − | Week 5 catches a sneaky failure mode: overload disguised as meaning. The person notices sleep wobbling again | + | Week 5 catches a sneaky failure mode: overload disguised as meaning. The person notices sleep wobbling again, not because of the phone this time, but because commitments are expanding. They feel resentment and dread. That’s not “laziness.” That’s an early warning sign. |
So this week is Center-focused: implement a stop-rule and reduce scope on one commitment. The idea is to protect capacity so reliability remains possible. | So this week is Center-focused: implement a stop-rule and reduce scope on one commitment. The idea is to protect capacity so reliability remains possible. | ||
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=== Emphasis === | === Emphasis === | ||
* '''Center''' — sleep/stress wobble predicts instability. | * '''Center''' — sleep/stress wobble predicts instability. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Life~Meaning Layer Lens (Week 5) === | ||
| + | * '''Layer 1–2:''' Sleep and regulation are protected as core viability. | ||
| + | * '''Layer 4:''' The playbook treats unchecked overload as a “cancer dynamic” risk (runaway extraction that harms the whole). | ||
| + | * '''Layer 6:''' Stop-rules make reinforcement learning sane (avoid guilt-debt loops). | ||
=== T.7 (Commitments) — Stop-rule + scope === | === T.7 (Commitments) — Stop-rule + scope === | ||
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== Week 6 (Week Ending 2026-02-14) — Review + Renewal (Upgradeable Identity) == | == Week 6 (Week Ending 2026-02-14) — Review + Renewal (Upgradeable Identity) == | ||
| − | === | + | === Our Story === |
Week 6 is where the playbook turns into a true learning loop. After multiple weeks of experiments, the person now has real data: sleep improved with environmental change, pain cascades were softened by tiny movement, connection improved with one weekly touchpoint, and overload was reduced with stop-rules. | Week 6 is where the playbook turns into a true learning loop. After multiple weeks of experiments, the person now has real data: sleep improved with environmental change, pain cascades were softened by tiny movement, connection improved with one weekly touchpoint, and overload was reduced with stop-rules. | ||
| − | Now the goal isn’t another new tactic | + | Now the goal isn’t another new tactic, it’s consolidation: keep what works, stop what doesn’t, and choose one small upgrade that expands options without shattering identity. |
=== Why This Week’s Approach Makes Sense (Rationale) === | === Why This Week’s Approach Makes Sense (Rationale) === | ||
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=== Goal === | === Goal === | ||
* Monthly review to refresh direction without overhauls. | * Monthly review to refresh direction without overhauls. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Emphasis (explicit horizons) === | ||
| + | * '''Review mode''' (T.8), plus a small horizon label to prevent drift: | ||
| + | ** '''Layer 9 (Narrative Identity & Generativity):''' “What am I building across time?” | ||
| + | ** '''Layer 10 (Caring for the Future):''' “What long-lived system do I help keep viable in a small, realistic way?” | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Life~Meaning Layer Lens (Week 6) === | ||
| + | * '''Layer 5:''' The loop becomes cumulative learning, not weekly improvisation. | ||
| + | * '''Layer 9:''' Identity becomes upgradeable across seasons, not brittle. | ||
| + | * '''Layer 10:''' Stewardship is made small and real, not grand and performative. | ||
=== T.8 (Review + Renewal) — Scorecard + keep/stop/start === | === T.8 (Review + Renewal) — Scorecard + keep/stop/start === | ||
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* Meaningful contact (1–5) | * Meaningful contact (1–5) | ||
* Load/capacity balance (1–5) | * Load/capacity balance (1–5) | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Layer 9 move (Generativity) === | ||
| + | Pick one small “legacy scaffold” that can persist: | ||
| + | * a recurring role that fits capacity | ||
| + | * a documentation habit (knowledge commons) | ||
| + | * a mentorship or teaching touchpoint | ||
| + | * a small creative output with continuity | ||
| + | |||
| + | '''Example prompt to use in T.7 or T.8 (paste-ready):''' | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Label one commitment as Layer 9 (legacy/generativity). Define “done,” weekly cadence, and a stop-rule. | ||
| + | Make it small and sustainable, and tie it to something I can keep going for 3 months. | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Layer 10 move (Stewardship) === | ||
| + | Choose one realistic 10–30 minute stewardship action for this week: | ||
| + | * people: a caregiver-support stabilization move | ||
| + | * place: a small “care for place” action (maintenance, cleanup, donation) | ||
| + | * institution: a small reliability action for a club/community/institution | ||
| + | * knowledge commons: update, archive, or document something so future people can use it | ||
| + | * environment: one small “reduce harm / increase care” move | ||
| + | |||
| + | '''Example prompt to use in T.0 or T.7 (paste-ready):''' | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Give me one realistic Layer 10 stewardship action for this week that fits my capacity: | ||
| + | people, place, institution, knowledge commons, or environment. | ||
| + | Make it a 10–30 minute move and define “done.” | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
=== T.9 (Risk Register) — Monthly stale check (optional) === | === T.9 (Risk Register) — Monthly stale check (optional) === | ||
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Update that row and give it a new Review date. Output the updated row paste-ready. | Update that row and give it a new Review date. Output the updated row paste-ready. | ||
</pre> | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.9 long-horizon risk (Layer 10 example row) === | ||
| + | ''(Optional, if relevant: add one long-horizon risk that quietly grows even when the week “feels fine.”)'' | ||
| + | {| class="wikitable" style="width:100%;" | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | ! Risk / Fragility !! Early Warning Signs !! Prevention (Barrier) !! Mitigation (Plan B) !! Status | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | '''Layer 10:''' Institutional drift (knowledge not captured, successors can’t operate) || Same questions repeat; lost files; “only one person knows” || Weekly 10-minute capture habit (one note or wiki update) || Assign a backup person + create a “starter packet” link || '''MONITOR''' (Review: 2026-03-14) | ||
| + | |} | ||
=== T.10 (Learning Log) — One row === | === T.10 (Learning Log) — One row === | ||
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Status: KEEP | Status: KEEP | ||
</pre> | </pre> | ||
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| + | ---- | ||
| + | |||
| + | == Layer Trace Index (1–10) == | ||
| + | This index makes it easy to see that the walkthrough now explicitly covers all 10 layers, without changing the weekly loop. | ||
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| + | {| class="wikitable" style="width:100%;" | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | ! Layer !! Walkthrough anchor (where to look) | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | L1 || Week 1 phone boundary; Week 2 movement; Week 5 sleep protection | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | L2 || Every week W.1 Scan + W.2 Vital Signals; Week 2 early warnings; T.9 barriers | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | L3 || Week 2 flare handling; Week 5 recovery protected; T.2 low-energy defaults | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | L4 || Week 3–4 Circle maintenance; Week 5 overload treated as structural risk | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | L5 || All W.4 micro-experiments; T.10 Signal → Change → Result | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | L6 || Week 1 environment beats willpower; Week 5 stop-rule; T.10 keep/tweak/drop | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | L7 || Week 1 focus/clarity; Week 4 rumination reduction; “notice numbness/overload” in scans | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | L8 || Week 3 warm touchpoint; Week 4 relationship maintenance; T.4–T.6 | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | L9 || Week 6 review + renewal; Layer 9 move; T.8 upgradeable identity; T.7 horizon labeling | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | L10 || Week 6 stewardship move + long-horizon risk row; T.9 long-horizon risk pattern | ||
| + | |} | ||
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Example Walkthrough (6 Weeks) — Project: Center & Circle
This is a fictional-but-realistic walkthrough showing how one person uses the ChatGPT project titled Center & Circle over several weeks. It demonstrates how Threads T.1–T.10 get used in practice.
Think of the walkthrough as the movie trailer for the playbook. It turns what could feel like a dry weekly checklist into a living sequence of real-life moves, drift, stress, flares, overload, repairs, renewal, and shows how the system keeps steering anyway. The story does not replace the workflow; it proves the workflow works under normal messy conditions.
Across six weeks, the user goes from “I’m fine… but I’m sliding” to “I can steer.” Each week is a small victory:
- Week 1: Drift gets caught early. Nothing is on fire, but sleep and focus are quietly degrading. Instead of panic or grand goals, the user makes one surgical change: phone out of the bedroom. Tiny move, huge leverage.
- Week 2: A flare hits, and the system doesn’t collapse. Pain threatens a cascade (less movement → worse mood → worse sleep). The user adds redundancy: a minimum-walk Plan B and captures it in the Risk Register, turning fragility into resilience.
- Week 3: The Circle gets warmed before loneliness becomes a crisis. Social connection is thinning. The user treats connection like infrastructure: one weekly warm touchpoint plus a simple scaffolding map and templates.
- Week 4: Micro-friction gets repaired fast. Instead of stewing, the user uses a “fast repair” script to fix a small crack while it’s still small. Mood improves because the emotional load stops compounding.
- Week 5: Overload gets exposed as “fake meaning.” Commitments expand, sleep wobbles, resentment rises. The user installs a stop-rule and reduces scope to protect capacity and long-term reliability.
- Week 6: The system evolves instead of thrashing. A monthly review consolidates learning: keep what works, stop what doesn’t, refresh one risk row, and choose one small “next upgrade.” It feels like leveling up, calm, real, earned.
| What the Story Teaches (Without Lecturing) |
|---|
| The walkthrough trains pattern recognition: drift → tiny fix, flare → Plan B', isolation → warm touchpoint, friction → fast repair, overload → stop-rule, review → renewal. Instead of “try harder,” the user learns how to steer with small moves. |
10-Layer Walkthrough Alignment (Life~Meaning 1–10)
The playbook aligns to 10 layers. This walkthrough shows how the same weekly loop protects lower-layer coherence (Layers 1–7) while also protecting social stability and long-horizon continuity (Layers 8–10).
Key rule used in this walkthrough:
- Center mostly protects Layers 1–7 (internal coherence, capacity, recovery, attention).
- Circle mostly protects Layers 8–10 (relationships, identity across time, stewardship of long-lived systems).
- When the week is Circle, W.3 names a horizon: Layer 8 (relationships now), Layer 9 (identity/legacy across time), or Layer 10 (stewardship for people and planet).
| Life~Meaning Layer (1–10) | What it means in plain terms | Where it appears in this Walkthrough |
|---|---|---|
| Layer 1: Thermodynamic Coherence | Energy, sleep, basics, and friction control so the system doesn’t unravel | Week 1 phone out of bedroom; Week 2 walk habit; T.2 low-energy defaults |
| Layer 2: Staying In Balance (Allostasis & Homeostasis) | Regulation plus anticipating demand (catch drift early) | Every week’s W.1 Scan + W.2 Vital Signals; T.9 barriers; early-warning thinking in Weeks 1–2 |
| Layer 3: Morphogenesis & Regeneration | Repair, recovery, maintenance routines that preserve form over time | Week 2 flare response; Week 5 scope reduction to preserve recovery; T.2 appointments/recovery defaults; T.10 “what helped” |
| Layer 4: From Persistence to Membership | Stability improves when you belong and play roles without “cancer dynamics” (unchecked overload) | Week 3–4 Circle maintenance; Week 5 commitments as load vs scaffolding; fast repair protects membership |
| Layer 5: Predictive World-Models | “What-if” simulation and learning from experiments | Every week’s W.4 Micro-Experiment; T.1; T.10 Signal → Change → Result |
| Layer 6: Reward, Avoidance, Reinforcement Learning | Habits update via felt value, stop-rules, and cost/benefit learning | Week 1 environment beats willpower; Week 5 stop-rule; “KEEP/TWEAK/DROP” loop in T.10 |
| Layer 7: Conscious Moments & Binding | Attention, clarity, felt presence, and unified “now” that can steer | Week 1 focus/clarity signal; Week 4 rumination reduction; noticing numbness/overload in W.1 Scan |
| Layer 8: Social Meaning | Shared reality, roles, language, relationship trust and “warmth” | Week 3 warm touchpoint; Week 4 relationship maintenance; T.4–T.6; W.5 touchpoint |
| Layer 9: Narrative Identity & Generativity | Coherence across years, legacy scaffolds, “what I’m building” | Week 6 review + renewal; T.8 upgradeable identity; T.7 purposeful projects |
| Layer 10: Caring for the Future (People and Planet) | Stewardship of long-lived systems (family, institutions, knowledge commons, ecology) | Week 6 adds a small stewardship move + a long-horizon risk row; T.9 includes long-horizon risks; T.7 horizon labeling |
| Week Summary (Layer Lens) |
|---|
| This 6-week story covers the full layer ladder: Center work (Layers 1–7), Circle work (Layer 8), then identity and stewardship (Layers 9–10). The weekly loop stays the same, but the horizon gets named and protected. |
Why This Walkthrough Works
The walkthrough works because it is a translation layer between the playbook’s structure and real life. A user can understand W.1–W.7 intellectually, but still struggle to apply it when the week is messy. The story shows the playbook being used in ordinary conditions, drift, stress, pain, isolation, friction, overload, and demonstrates how the loop keeps functioning without needing a perfect week. That makes the system feel usable, not aspirational.
It also makes the hidden logic obvious: why the playbook forces a small number of vital signals (so you don’t try to fix everything), why it insists on choosing Center vs Circle (so you don’t thrash), why it includes the Risk Register (so you don’t get wiped out by single points of failure), and why it ends with the Learning Log (so the system actually learns). The story quietly teaches that stability comes from course-corrections, not heroics.
Finally, the walkthrough gives the reader confidence and permission: confidence that the steps work, and permission to keep everything small. The big takeaway is that you don’t need a new identity or a “perfect plan.” You need one dial, one experiment, one touchpoint, one backup, and one log line, repeated weekly until your life starts steering itself.
Quick Map: How a Week Runs
- Always start in: T.0 Thread: Control Room
- Only switch threads when needed: T.1–T.8 (deep work), T.9 (Risk Register update), T.10 (Learning Log row)
- End every week by writing one row into: T.10 Thread: Learning Log
- NEW (Circle weeks): In W.3, name the horizon: Layer 8 (relationships), Layer 9 (legacy), or Layer 10 (stewardship)
Walkthrough Flow
| Legend |
|---|
| [T.x] = Thread used • → = next step in the weekly path • (optional) = used only if needed |
Overall Loop (Every Week)
Start → [T.0 Control Room] Run W.1→W.7
→ (switch to 1–2 deep-work threads only if needed)
→ [T.9 Risk Register] (optional: add/update 1 row)
→ [T.10 Learning Log] record 1 row
→ End (close until next week)
Week-by-Week Flow (Text Diagram)
- Week 1 — “Stop the Drift” (Center)
[T.0] Scan → Signals → Center vs Circle → Micro-Experiment → [T.1] (optional: scan feels fuzzy) → [T.2] Basics checklist + low-energy defaults → [T.10] Log row
- Week 2 — “Add a Backup” (Center)
[T.0] Scan → Signals → Center → Micro-Experiment → [T.2] Basics baseline → [T.3] Redundancy Plan B → [T.9] Risk Register row → [T.10] Log row
- Week 3 — “Warm the Circle” (Circle, Horizon
- Layer 8)
[T.0] Scan → Signals → Circle (Layer 8) → Micro-Experiment → [T.4] Social Value menu + boundaries → [T.5] Scaffolding map + templates + anchor → [T.10] Log row
- Week 4 — “Repair Fast” (Circle, Horizon
- Layer 8)
[T.0] Scan → Signals → Circle (Layer 8) → Micro-Experiment → [T.6] Relationship Maintenance rotation + fast repair → [T.5] (optional: reuse templates / who-to-call) → [T.10] Log row
- Week 5 — “Cut Load, Protect Sleep” (Center)
[T.0] Scan → Signals → Center → Micro-Experiment → [T.7] Commitments (define done + cadence + stop-rule) → [T.2] Basics protect baseline → [T.9] (optional: overload risk row) → [T.10] Log row
- Week 6 — “Review + Renewal” (Circle Horizons
- Layer 9 + Layer 10)
[T.0] Route into review mode → [T.8] Review + Renewal scorecard + keep/stop/start → [T.7] (optional) Horizon labeling: Layer 9 + Layer 10 → [T.9] (optional: stale check → refresh 1 row, include long-horizon risk if present) → [T.10] Log row
Week Summary Table (What got used when)
| Week Ending | Emphasis | Vital Signal(s) | Threads Used This Week | Micro-Experiment (7 days) |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2026-01-10 | Center | Sleep + Focus | T.0, T.1, T.2, T.10 | Phone in kitchen by 9:00 PM |
| 2026-01-17 | Center | Pain + Mobility | T.0, T.2, T.3, T.9, T.10 | 8-minute walk after breakfast |
| 2026-01-24 | Circle | Meaningful Contact | T.0, T.4, T.5, T.10 | One “warm touch” message every Tue |
| 2026-01-31 | Circle | Mood/Irritability | T.0, T.6, T.5, T.10 | Repair one friction within 24 hours |
| 2026-02-07 | Center | Sleep + Stress | T.0, T.7, T.2, T.9, T.10 | Stop-rule + scope reduction on 1 commitment |
| 2026-02-14 | Review | Stability Score | T.0, T.8, T.9, T.10 | Monthly review + next-version list |
| Week Summary Table (Layers + Horizon) | |||
|---|---|---|---|
| Week Ending | Primary Layers Protected | Horizon (if Circle) | Why it matters |
| 2026-01-10 | L1, L2, L5, L6, L7 | N/A | Energy + attention stabilized by environment change; learning loop starts |
| 2026-01-17 | L2, L3, L5, L6 | N/A | Flare-proofing prevents cascade; Plan B reduces brittleness |
| 2026-01-24 | L4, L8 | Layer 8 | Warmth treated as infrastructure; scaffolding prevents isolation |
| 2026-01-31 | L7, L8 | Layer 8 | Rumination drops when repairs happen early; trust stays intact |
| 2026-02-07 | L1, L2, L4, L6 | N/A | Overload is treated as a “cancer dynamic” risk; stop-rule protects recovery |
| 2026-02-14 | L5, L9, L10 | Layer 9 + Layer 10 | Identity upgrades are consolidated; stewardship is made small and real |
Week 1 (Week Ending 2026-01-10) — First “Real” Run
Our Story
Week 1 starts with a classic situation: nothing is “on fire,” but the person feels a little more scattered than usual. Bedtime has drifted later, the phone keeps the brain “lit up,” and mornings feel foggy. That’s not a crisis, it’s drift. Drift is dangerous because it’s easy to ignore… until it suddenly becomes loud.
So the playbook is used exactly as intended: run the process once, even imperfectly, and let the workflow surface the simplest stabilizing move.
Why This Week’s Approach Makes Sense (Rationale)
- The goal is not to “fix life.” It’s to find the one dial that predicts stability.
- Sleep is a multiplier: when it slips, everything gets harder.
- Environmental changes (like where the phone lives) beat willpower.
Goal
- Establish baseline: run W.1 → W.7 once, even if imperfect.
- Use T.1 if the scan feels fuzzy; use T.2 to build “low-energy defaults.”
- Record first row in T.10.
Life~Meaning Layer Lens (Week 1)
- Layer 1: Energy and sleep stability are treated as load-bearing.
- Layer 2: Drift is caught early with vital signals (anticipation beats crisis).
- Layer 5–6: The micro-experiment creates learning, not resolutions.
- Layer 7: Focus/clarity is treated as a real stability signal, not “mood talk.”
T.0 (Control Room) — What I paste
Run the Weekly Workflow W.1 → W.7 with me: W.1 Scan: ask the 3 questions (draining / strengthening / quietly worsening), then summarize. W.2 Vital Signals: recommend 1–2 signals to track next week. W.3 Decision Point: choose Center vs Circle emphasis (1 sentence why). W.4 Micro-Experiment: propose ONE 7-day test (what/when/how to measure). W.5 Social Touchpoint: draft ONE 10-minute message in my voice. W.6 Risk Check: name #1 single point of failure + one barrier + one Plan B (for T.9). W.7 Finish: write one-line log: Signal → Change → Result. Keep it short and tactical.
W.1 Scan (My answers)
- Draining: Late-night scrolling; too many small errands; caregiver stress.
- Strengthening: Morning coffee + quiet; short conversation with a friend; one club task done early.
- Quietly worsening: Sleep drift (later bedtime); focus feels “foggy.”
W.2 Vital Signals (Chosen)
- Sleep hours (or bedtime consistency)
- Focus/clarity (simple 1–5 rating at noon)
W.3 Decision Point
- Emphasis: Center — sleep/focus drift is predicting instability.
W.4 Micro-Experiment (7 days)
- Phone in kitchen by 9:00 PM (charge overnight)
- Measure: “lights out time” + noon focus rating
W.5 Social Touchpoint (10 minutes)
- One warm message to a friend (no logistics, just connection)
W.6 Risk Check (light)
- Single point of failure noticed: “All recovery depends on sleep behaving.”
- Barrier: phone away
- Plan B: if sleep fails 2 nights, simplify commitments next day
T.2 (Basics) — Protect fundamentals
In T.2 I paste:
Help me protect the fundamentals: sleep, movement, nutrition/hydration, and meds/appointments (if relevant). Ask only what you need, then produce: 1) a simple daily checklist, 2) a “Low-Energy Default” version for bad days, 3) one small friction-reduction change for this week.
T.10 (Learning Log) — One row added
Week Ending: 2026-01-10 Vital Signal(s): Sleep / Focus Micro-Experiment (The Change): Phone in kitchen by 9:00 PM Result / Observation: 30 min extra sleep; focus improved Status: KEEP
Week 2 (Week Ending 2026-01-17) — Add Redundancy + First T.9 Entry
Our Story
Week 2 begins with a reality check: even if sleep improves, other systems can wobble. A pain flare shows up and threatens to knock out movement. The person notices an ugly pattern: when pain rises, movement drops; when movement drops, mood and sleep start wobbling again. That’s how a “fine week” turns into a bad one.
So this week is about making the system less brittle: keep the basics stable, add a tiny movement habit, and build a Plan B so one flare doesn’t cascade.
Why This Week’s Approach Makes Sense (Rationale)
- The vital signals were changed to match the current failure mode (pain/mobility).
- The experiment is deliberately small (8 minutes) to reduce resistance.
- Redundancy is introduced early: Plan B prevents panic and prevents cascade.
Goal
- Keep Center emphasis, but add one “Plan B” backup so life is less brittle.
Life~Meaning Layer Lens (Week 2)
- Layer 2: Early warning signs are named and tracked.
- Layer 3: Repair and recovery are treated as form-preserving, not optional.
- Layer 5: A simple experiment tests a stabilizing move.
- Layer 6: The experiment is sized to succeed, so reinforcement learning can actually update.
T.0 — Highlights
- Draining: Pain flare; errands stacked.
- Strengthening: Walking felt good once started; sleep slightly better.
- Quietly worsening: Mobility/pain is affecting mood.
Vital Signals (Chosen)
- Pain level (0–10)
- Mobility (minutes walked)
Micro-Experiment (7 days)
- 8-minute walk after breakfast (every day)
- Measure: # days completed + pain rating at 5pm
T.3 (Redundancy) — Find single points of failure
In T.3 I paste:
Help me identify single points of failure in my life (health, home, tech, routines, money, caregiving, transportation). Then help me add small backups (Plan B’s) that reduce brittleness. Output a short risk list + fixes.
T.9 (Risk Register) — Add ONE row
In T.9 I paste:
Add this to my Risk Register: Pain flare-ups are reducing movement and increasing irritability. Ask me ONLY ONE question if needed. Then output ONE completed Risk Register row (same columns as my table) with a Review date.
Paste-ready Risk Register row (example):
| Risk / Fragility | Early Warning Signs | Prevention (Barrier) | Mitigation (Plan B) | Status |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Health: Pain flare reduces movement → sleep worsens | Pain > 6/10; walking skipped 2 days; irritability up | 8-min walk after breakfast + simple stretch | “Minimum walk” 3 min + heat/ice + reduce commitments that day | MONITOR (Review: 2026-01-24) |
T.10 (Learning Log) — One row
Week Ending: 2026-01-17 Vital Signal(s): Pain / Mobility Micro-Experiment (The Change): 8-minute walk after breakfast Result / Observation: 5/7 days; pain slightly lower by evening; mood steadier Status: TWEAK (aim for 6/7; add shoes-by-door)
Week 3 (Week Ending 2026-01-24) — Shift to Circle: Social Value + Scaffolding
Our Story
Week 3 is where the person realizes something important: even if the Center is improving, the Circle can quietly thin out. They aren’t in crisis, but they feel more alone than they want to be. Isolation rarely feels like a “problem” at first; it feels like “being busy.” Then, when stress hits, there’s nobody nearby to buffer it.
So the emphasis shifts to Circle. The vital signal becomes meaningful contact (not “likes,” not admin texts, real warmth). The experiment is tiny: one warm touchpoint every Tuesday.
Why This Week’s Approach Makes Sense (Rationale)
- The playbook treats connection as infrastructure, not a luxury.
- “Warm touchpoints” are low-friction and repeatable.
- Social Value + Scaffolding ensures the person contributes without overload.
Goal
- Warm the network before isolation becomes a problem.
Emphasis
- Circle — meaningful contact predicts stability this week.
- Horizon (NEW): Layer 8 — relationships and shared reality now (warmth, trust, membership).
Vital Signal
- Meaningful contact (one real conversation or supportive exchange)
Micro-Experiment (7 days)
- One warm touchpoint every Tuesday (10 minutes)
Life~Meaning Layer Lens (Week 3)
- Layer 4: Membership is protected before the system gets brittle.
- Layer 8: Social meaning is treated as a stabilizer, not decoration.
Help me define a reliable “value menu” I can offer others (skills, roles, contributions) that also strengthens my stability. Add boundaries so it doesn’t become overload.
T.5 (Social Scaffolding) — Map support + templates
Help me build a simple, reliable support structure: - inner/outer/institutions map, - “who to call” list, - a short “help menu” (what I can ask for / offer), - two message templates (check-in + ask for help), - one repeating social anchor. Keep it low-friction and specific.
T.10 (Learning Log) — One row
Week Ending: 2026-01-24 Vital Signal(s): Meaningful Contact Micro-Experiment (The Change): One warm touchpoint every Tuesday Result / Observation: Felt less isolated; got an easy “good to hear from you” reply Status: KEEP
Week 4 (Week Ending 2026-01-31) — Relationship Maintenance + Fast Repair
Our Story
Week 4 is a subtle one: the person notices irritability rising. Nothing catastrophic happened, it’s accumulated friction. One relationship feels slightly “stiff,” and they find themselves replaying a conversation in their head. That replay loop is a signal: small cracks are forming.
Instead of waiting, they use the playbook to build a habit: repair one friction within 24 hours. The goal is not to win an argument, it’s to prevent drift from becoming distance.
Why This Week’s Approach Makes Sense (Rationale)
- Repairs are cheapest when they’re early.
- Scripts reduce emotional labor and prevent defensive spirals.
- A rotation schedule prevents relationships from being “mood-based.”
Goal
- Prevent small friction from becoming relationship drift.
Vital Signal
- Mood/Irritability (1–5 rating, evenings)
Micro-Experiment (7 days)
- Repair one friction within 24 hours (instead of stewing)
Emphasis
- Circle
- Horizon: Layer 8 — keep trust warm; prevent small cracks from becoming social distance.
Life~Meaning Layer Lens (Week 4)
- Layer 7: Rumination drops when repairs happen early (attention stays coherent).
- Layer 8: Relationship trust is maintained as infrastructure.
T.6 (Relationship Maintenance) — Rotation + repair script
Help me maintain relationships with a simple rotation schedule (who, when, how). Draft two quick check-in templates and one ‘fast repair’ script. Ask a few questions, then propose 5 small touchpoints and one weekend relationship reset.
Example “fast repair” script
Hey, quick note. I think I came across sharper than I meant to earlier. Sorry about that. I’m dealing with some stress and it leaked out. I value you, and I want us to be good.
T.10 (Learning Log) — One row
Week Ending: 2026-01-31 Vital Signal(s): Mood/Irritability Micro-Experiment (The Change): Repair one friction within 24 hours Result / Observation: One relationship warmed back up; less rumination Status: KEEP
Week 5 (Week Ending 2026-02-07) — Commitments Audit + Stop-Rule
Our Story
Week 5 catches a sneaky failure mode: overload disguised as meaning. The person notices sleep wobbling again, not because of the phone this time, but because commitments are expanding. They feel resentment and dread. That’s not “laziness.” That’s an early warning sign.
So this week is Center-focused: implement a stop-rule and reduce scope on one commitment. The idea is to protect capacity so reliability remains possible.
Why This Week’s Approach Makes Sense (Rationale)
- Stop-rules convert vague “I should” into objective triggers.
- Scope cuts preserve participation without burning out.
- Risk Register entries make overload visible and reviewable.
Goal
- Reduce overload that harms sleep/stress.
Emphasis
- Center — sleep/stress wobble predicts instability.
Life~Meaning Layer Lens (Week 5)
- Layer 1–2: Sleep and regulation are protected as core viability.
- Layer 4: The playbook treats unchecked overload as a “cancer dynamic” risk (runaway extraction that harms the whole).
- Layer 6: Stop-rules make reinforcement learning sane (avoid guilt-debt loops).
T.7 (Commitments) — Stop-rule + scope
Help me choose 1–2 small projects/commitments that create meaning without destabilizing me. For each, define: “done,” the next tiny step, and a weekly cadence. Include a stop-rule to prevent burnout (if sleep or stress worsens, we reduce scope or pause).
Example stop-rule (paste-ready)
- If sleep drops below 6 hours for 2 nights OR stress is 4/5 for 2 days → pause or reduce scope for one week.
T.9 (Risk Register) — Optional row
| Risk / Fragility | Early Warning Signs | Prevention (Barrier) | Mitigation (Plan B) | Status |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Overload: Commitments expand → sleep collapses | Sleep < 6h for 2 nights; dread; irritability | Stop-rule + weekly “yes filter” | Reduce scope 50% for 7 days; cancel one non-essential obligation | ACTIVE (Review: 2026-02-14) |
T.10 (Learning Log) — One row
Week Ending: 2026-02-07 Vital Signal(s): Sleep / Stress Micro-Experiment (The Change): Stop-rule + reduce one commitment’s scope Result / Observation: Stress down; sleep steadier; less resentment Status: KEEP
Week 6 (Week Ending 2026-02-14) — Review + Renewal (Upgradeable Identity)
Our Story
Week 6 is where the playbook turns into a true learning loop. After multiple weeks of experiments, the person now has real data: sleep improved with environmental change, pain cascades were softened by tiny movement, connection improved with one weekly touchpoint, and overload was reduced with stop-rules.
Now the goal isn’t another new tactic, it’s consolidation: keep what works, stop what doesn’t, and choose one small upgrade that expands options without shattering identity.
Why This Week’s Approach Makes Sense (Rationale)
- Reviews prevent “random walk” life.
- A simple scorecard makes tradeoffs visible.
- One renewal action avoids identity-overhaul mania.
Goal
- Monthly review to refresh direction without overhauls.
Emphasis (explicit horizons)
- Review mode (T.8), plus a small horizon label to prevent drift:
- Layer 9 (Narrative Identity & Generativity): “What am I building across time?”
- Layer 10 (Caring for the Future): “What long-lived system do I help keep viable in a small, realistic way?”
Life~Meaning Layer Lens (Week 6)
- Layer 5: The loop becomes cumulative learning, not weekly improvisation.
- Layer 9: Identity becomes upgradeable across seasons, not brittle.
- Layer 10: Stewardship is made small and real, not grand and performative.
T.8 (Review + Renewal) — Scorecard + keep/stop/start
Help me run a monthly/quarterly review to learn what’s working, retire what isn’t, and refresh goals. Include a simple scorecard, a ‘keep/stop/start’ list, and one renewal action.
Simple scorecard (example)
- Sleep stability (1–5)
- Pain/mobility (1–5)
- Meaningful contact (1–5)
- Load/capacity balance (1–5)
Layer 9 move (Generativity)
Pick one small “legacy scaffold” that can persist:
- a recurring role that fits capacity
- a documentation habit (knowledge commons)
- a mentorship or teaching touchpoint
- a small creative output with continuity
Example prompt to use in T.7 or T.8 (paste-ready):
Label one commitment as Layer 9 (legacy/generativity). Define “done,” weekly cadence, and a stop-rule. Make it small and sustainable, and tie it to something I can keep going for 3 months.
Layer 10 move (Stewardship)
Choose one realistic 10–30 minute stewardship action for this week:
- people: a caregiver-support stabilization move
- place: a small “care for place” action (maintenance, cleanup, donation)
- institution: a small reliability action for a club/community/institution
- knowledge commons: update, archive, or document something so future people can use it
- environment: one small “reduce harm / increase care” move
Example prompt to use in T.0 or T.7 (paste-ready):
Give me one realistic Layer 10 stewardship action for this week that fits my capacity: people, place, institution, knowledge commons, or environment. Make it a 10–30 minute move and define “done.”
T.9 (Risk Register) — Monthly stale check (optional)
Risk Register check: Which one row in my Risk Register is most out of date? Update that row and give it a new Review date. Output the updated row paste-ready.
T.9 long-horizon risk (Layer 10 example row)
(Optional, if relevant: add one long-horizon risk that quietly grows even when the week “feels fine.”)
| Risk / Fragility | Early Warning Signs | Prevention (Barrier) | Mitigation (Plan B) | Status |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Layer 10: Institutional drift (knowledge not captured, successors can’t operate) | Same questions repeat; lost files; “only one person knows” | Weekly 10-minute capture habit (one note or wiki update) | Assign a backup person + create a “starter packet” link | MONITOR (Review: 2026-03-14) |
T.10 (Learning Log) — One row
Week Ending: 2026-02-14 Vital Signal(s): Stability Score (monthly) Micro-Experiment (The Change): Monthly review + one renewal action chosen Result / Observation: Clearer priorities; reduced thrash; one upgrade selected Status: KEEP
Layer Trace Index (1–10)
This index makes it easy to see that the walkthrough now explicitly covers all 10 layers, without changing the weekly loop.
| Layer | Walkthrough anchor (where to look) |
|---|---|
| L1 | Week 1 phone boundary; Week 2 movement; Week 5 sleep protection |
| L2 | Every week W.1 Scan + W.2 Vital Signals; Week 2 early warnings; T.9 barriers |
| L3 | Week 2 flare handling; Week 5 recovery protected; T.2 low-energy defaults |
| L4 | Week 3–4 Circle maintenance; Week 5 overload treated as structural risk |
| L5 | All W.4 micro-experiments; T.10 Signal → Change → Result |
| L6 | Week 1 environment beats willpower; Week 5 stop-rule; T.10 keep/tweak/drop |
| L7 | Week 1 focus/clarity; Week 4 rumination reduction; “notice numbness/overload” in scans |
| L8 | Week 3 warm touchpoint; Week 4 relationship maintenance; T.4–T.6 |
| L9 | Week 6 review + renewal; Layer 9 move; T.8 upgradeable identity; T.7 horizon labeling |
| L10 | Week 6 stewardship move + long-horizon risk row; T.9 long-horizon risk pattern |