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| The '''Center and Circle Playbook''' is for Self-check-ins and planning support. It is '''not medical, mental health, legal, or emergency advice'''. If you feel in danger, are considering self-harm, or there is an immediate safety risk, call your local emergency number; if in US call '''911'''. If you’re in need urgent emotional support contact your local emergency services or a trusted local crisis line; if in US you can call or text '''988''' (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). When in doubt, reach out to a clinician, caregiver support organization, or a trusted person in your Circle. | | The '''Center and Circle Playbook''' is for Self-check-ins and planning support. It is '''not medical, mental health, legal, or emergency advice'''. If you feel in danger, are considering self-harm, or there is an immediate safety risk, call your local emergency number; if in US call '''911'''. If you’re in need urgent emotional support contact your local emergency services or a trusted local crisis line; if in US you can call or text '''988''' (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). When in doubt, reach out to a clinician, caregiver support organization, or a trusted person in your Circle. | ||
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| + | |||
| + | == Example Walkthrough (6 Weeks) — Project: ''Center & Circle'' == | ||
| + | |||
| + | ''This is a fictional-but-realistic walkthrough showing how one person uses the ChatGPT project titled '''Center & Circle''' over several weeks. It demonstrates how Threads '''T.1–T.10''' get used in practice.'' | ||
| + | |||
| + | ---- | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Quick Map: How a Week Runs === | ||
| + | * '''Always start in:''' '''T.0 Thread: Control Room''' | ||
| + | * '''Only switch threads when needed:''' T.1–T.8 (deep work), T.9 (Risk Register update), T.10 (Learning Log row) | ||
| + | * '''End every week by writing one row into:''' '''T.10 Thread: Learning Log''' | ||
| + | |||
| + | ---- | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Week Summary Table (What got used when) === | ||
| + | {| class="wikitable sortable" style="width:100%;" | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | ! Week Ending !! Emphasis !! Vital Signal(s) !! Threads Used This Week !! Micro-Experiment (7 days) | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | 2026-01-10 || Center || Sleep + Focus || T.0, T.1, T.2, T.10 || Phone in kitchen by 9:00 PM | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | 2026-01-17 || Center || Pain + Mobility || T.0, T.2, T.3, T.9, T.10 || 8-minute walk after breakfast | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | 2026-01-24 || Circle || Meaningful Contact || T.0, T.4, T.5, T.10 || One “warm touch” message every Tue | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | 2026-01-31 || Circle || Mood/Irritability || T.0, T.6, T.5, T.10 || Repair one friction within 24 hours | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | 2026-02-07 || Center || Sleep + Stress || T.0, T.7, T.2, T.9, T.10 || Stop-rule + scope reduction on 1 commitment | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | 2026-02-14 || Review || Stability Score || T.0, T.8, T.9, T.10 || Monthly review + next-version list | ||
| + | |} | ||
| + | |||
| + | ---- | ||
| + | |||
| + | == Week 1 (Week Ending 2026-01-10) — First “Real” Run == | ||
| + | === Goal === | ||
| + | * Establish baseline: run W.1 → W.7 once, even if imperfect. | ||
| + | * Use T.1 if the scan feels fuzzy; use T.2 to build “low-energy defaults.” | ||
| + | * Record first row in T.10. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.0 (Control Room) — What I paste === | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Run the Weekly Workflow W.1 → W.7 with me: | ||
| + | W.1 Scan: ask the 3 questions (draining / strengthening / quietly worsening), then summarize. | ||
| + | W.2 Vital Signals: recommend 1–2 signals to track next week. | ||
| + | W.3 Decision Point: choose Center vs Circle emphasis (1 sentence why). | ||
| + | W.4 Micro-Experiment: propose ONE 7-day test (what/when/how to measure). | ||
| + | W.5 Social Touchpoint: draft ONE 10-minute message in my voice. | ||
| + | W.6 Risk Check: name #1 single point of failure + one barrier + one Plan B (for T.9). | ||
| + | W.7 Finish: write one-line log: Signal → Change → Result. | ||
| + | Keep it short and tactical. | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | === W.1 Scan (My answers) === | ||
| + | * '''Draining:''' Late-night scrolling; too many small errands; caregiver stress. | ||
| + | * '''Strengthening:''' Morning coffee + quiet; short conversation with a friend; one club task done early. | ||
| + | * '''Quietly worsening:''' Sleep drift (later bedtime); focus feels “foggy.” | ||
| + | |||
| + | === W.2 Vital Signals (Chosen) === | ||
| + | * '''Sleep hours''' (or bedtime consistency) | ||
| + | * '''Focus/clarity''' (simple 1–5 rating at noon) | ||
| + | |||
| + | === W.3 Decision Point === | ||
| + | * '''Emphasis: Center''' — sleep/focus drift is predicting instability. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === W.4 Micro-Experiment (7 days) === | ||
| + | * '''Phone in kitchen by 9:00 PM''' (charge overnight) | ||
| + | * Measure: “lights out time” + noon focus rating | ||
| + | |||
| + | === W.5 Social Touchpoint (10 minutes) === | ||
| + | * One warm message to a friend (no logistics, just connection) | ||
| + | |||
| + | === W.6 Risk Check (light) === | ||
| + | * Single point of failure noticed: “All recovery depends on sleep behaving.” | ||
| + | * Barrier: phone away | ||
| + | * Plan B: if sleep fails 2 nights, simplify commitments next day | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.2 (Basics) — Protect fundamentals === | ||
| + | '''In T.2 I paste:''' | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Help me protect the fundamentals: sleep, movement, nutrition/hydration, and meds/appointments (if relevant). | ||
| + | Ask only what you need, then produce: | ||
| + | 1) a simple daily checklist, | ||
| + | 2) a “Low-Energy Default” version for bad days, | ||
| + | 3) one small friction-reduction change for this week. | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.10 (Learning Log) — One row added === | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Week Ending: 2026-01-10 | ||
| + | Vital Signal(s): Sleep / Focus | ||
| + | Micro-Experiment (The Change): Phone in kitchen by 9:00 PM | ||
| + | Result / Observation: 30 min extra sleep; focus improved | ||
| + | Status: KEEP | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | ---- | ||
| + | |||
| + | == Week 2 (Week Ending 2026-01-17) — Add Redundancy + First T.9 Entry == | ||
| + | === Goal === | ||
| + | * Keep Center emphasis, but add one “Plan B” backup so life is less brittle. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.0 — Highlights === | ||
| + | * '''Draining:''' Pain flare; errands stacked. | ||
| + | * '''Strengthening:''' Walking felt good once started; sleep slightly better. | ||
| + | * '''Quietly worsening:''' Mobility/pain is affecting mood. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Vital Signals (Chosen) === | ||
| + | * '''Pain level (0–10)''' | ||
| + | * '''Mobility (minutes walked)''' | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Micro-Experiment (7 days) === | ||
| + | * '''8-minute walk after breakfast''' (every day) | ||
| + | * Measure: # days completed + pain rating at 5pm | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.3 (Redundancy) — Find single points of failure === | ||
| + | '''In T.3 I paste:''' | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Help me identify single points of failure in my life (health, home, tech, routines, money, caregiving, transportation). | ||
| + | Then help me add small backups (Plan B’s) that reduce brittleness. | ||
| + | Output a short risk list + fixes. | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.9 (Risk Register) — Add ONE row === | ||
| + | '''In T.9 I paste:''' | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Add this to my Risk Register: Pain flare-ups are reducing movement and increasing irritability. | ||
| + | Ask me ONLY ONE question if needed. | ||
| + | Then output ONE completed Risk Register row (same columns as my table) with a Review date. | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | '''Paste-ready Risk Register row (example):''' | ||
| + | {| class="wikitable" style="width:100%;" | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | ! Risk / Fragility !! Early Warning Signs !! Prevention (Barrier) !! Mitigation (Plan B) !! Status | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | '''Health:''' Pain flare reduces movement → sleep worsens || Pain > 6/10; walking skipped 2 days; irritability up || 8-min walk after breakfast + simple stretch || “Minimum walk” 3 min + heat/ice + reduce commitments that day || '''MONITOR''' (Review: 2026-01-24) | ||
| + | |} | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.10 (Learning Log) — One row === | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Week Ending: 2026-01-17 | ||
| + | Vital Signal(s): Pain / Mobility | ||
| + | Micro-Experiment (The Change): 8-minute walk after breakfast | ||
| + | Result / Observation: 5/7 days; pain slightly lower by evening; mood steadier | ||
| + | Status: TWEAK (aim for 6/7; add shoes-by-door) | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | ---- | ||
| + | |||
| + | == Week 3 (Week Ending 2026-01-24) — Shift to Circle: Social Value + Scaffolding == | ||
| + | === Goal === | ||
| + | * Warm the network before isolation becomes a problem. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Emphasis === | ||
| + | * '''Circle''' — meaningful contact predicts stability this week. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Vital Signal === | ||
| + | * '''Meaningful contact''' (one real conversation or supportive exchange) | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Micro-Experiment (7 days) === | ||
| + | * '''One warm touchpoint every Tuesday''' (10 minutes) | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.4 (Social Value) — Value menu + boundaries === | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Help me define a reliable “value menu” I can offer others (skills, roles, contributions) | ||
| + | that also strengthens my stability. Add boundaries so it doesn’t become overload. | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.5 (Social Scaffolding) — Map support + templates === | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Help me build a simple, reliable support structure: | ||
| + | - inner/outer/institutions map, | ||
| + | - “who to call” list, | ||
| + | - a short “help menu” (what I can ask for / offer), | ||
| + | - two message templates (check-in + ask for help), | ||
| + | - one repeating social anchor. | ||
| + | Keep it low-friction and specific. | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.10 (Learning Log) — One row === | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Week Ending: 2026-01-24 | ||
| + | Vital Signal(s): Meaningful Contact | ||
| + | Micro-Experiment (The Change): One warm touchpoint every Tuesday | ||
| + | Result / Observation: Felt less isolated; got an easy “good to hear from you” reply | ||
| + | Status: KEEP | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | ---- | ||
| + | |||
| + | == Week 4 (Week Ending 2026-01-31) — Relationship Maintenance + Fast Repair == | ||
| + | === Goal === | ||
| + | * Prevent small friction from becoming relationship drift. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Vital Signal === | ||
| + | * '''Mood/Irritability''' (1–5 rating, evenings) | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Micro-Experiment (7 days) === | ||
| + | * '''Repair one friction within 24 hours''' (instead of stewing) | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.6 (Relationship Maintenance) — Rotation + repair script === | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Help me maintain relationships with a simple rotation schedule (who, when, how). | ||
| + | Draft two quick check-in templates and one ‘fast repair’ script. | ||
| + | Ask a few questions, then propose 5 small touchpoints and one weekend relationship reset. | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Example “fast repair” script === | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Hey — quick note. I think I came across sharper than I meant to earlier. | ||
| + | Sorry about that. I’m dealing with some stress and it leaked out. | ||
| + | I value you, and I want us to be good. | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.10 (Learning Log) — One row === | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Week Ending: 2026-01-31 | ||
| + | Vital Signal(s): Mood/Irritability | ||
| + | Micro-Experiment (The Change): Repair one friction within 24 hours | ||
| + | Result / Observation: One relationship warmed back up; less rumination | ||
| + | Status: KEEP | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | ---- | ||
| + | |||
| + | == Week 5 (Week Ending 2026-02-07) — Commitments Audit + Stop-Rule == | ||
| + | === Goal === | ||
| + | * Reduce overload that harms sleep/stress. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Emphasis === | ||
| + | * '''Center''' — sleep/stress wobble predicts instability. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.7 (Commitments) — Stop-rule + scope === | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Help me choose 1–2 small projects/commitments that create meaning without destabilizing me. | ||
| + | For each, define: “done,” the next tiny step, and a weekly cadence. | ||
| + | Include a stop-rule to prevent burnout (if sleep or stress worsens, we reduce scope or pause). | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Example stop-rule (paste-ready) === | ||
| + | * If sleep drops below 6 hours for 2 nights OR stress is 4/5 for 2 days → '''pause or reduce scope''' for one week. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.9 (Risk Register) — Optional row === | ||
| + | {| class="wikitable" style="width:100%;" | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | ! Risk / Fragility !! Early Warning Signs !! Prevention (Barrier) !! Mitigation (Plan B) !! Status | ||
| + | |- | ||
| + | | '''Overload:''' Commitments expand → sleep collapses || Sleep < 6h for 2 nights; dread; irritability || Stop-rule + weekly “yes filter” || Reduce scope 50% for 7 days; cancel one non-essential obligation || '''ACTIVE''' (Review: 2026-02-14) | ||
| + | |} | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.10 (Learning Log) — One row === | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Week Ending: 2026-02-07 | ||
| + | Vital Signal(s): Sleep / Stress | ||
| + | Micro-Experiment (The Change): Stop-rule + reduce one commitment’s scope | ||
| + | Result / Observation: Stress down; sleep steadier; less resentment | ||
| + | Status: KEEP | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | ---- | ||
| + | |||
| + | == Week 6 (Week Ending 2026-02-14) — Review + Renewal (Upgradeable Identity) == | ||
| + | === Goal === | ||
| + | * Monthly review to refresh direction without overhauls. | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.8 (Review + Renewal) — Scorecard + keep/stop/start === | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Help me run a monthly/quarterly review to learn what’s working, retire what isn’t, and refresh goals. | ||
| + | Include a simple scorecard, a ‘keep/stop/start’ list, and one renewal action. | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | === Simple scorecard (example) === | ||
| + | * Sleep stability (1–5) | ||
| + | * Pain/mobility (1–5) | ||
| + | * Meaningful contact (1–5) | ||
| + | * Load/capacity balance (1–5) | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.9 (Risk Register) — Monthly stale check (optional) === | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Risk Register check: Which one row in my Risk Register is most out of date? | ||
| + | Update that row and give it a new Review date. Output the updated row paste-ready. | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
| + | |||
| + | === T.10 (Learning Log) — One row === | ||
| + | <pre> | ||
| + | Week Ending: 2026-02-14 | ||
| + | Vital Signal(s): Stability Score (monthly) | ||
| + | Micro-Experiment (The Change): Monthly review + one renewal action chosen | ||
| + | Result / Observation: Clearer priorities; reduced thrash; one upgrade selected | ||
| + | Status: KEEP | ||
| + | </pre> | ||
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| The Center and Circle Playbook is for Self-check-ins and planning support. It is not medical, mental health, legal, or emergency advice. If you feel in danger, are considering self-harm, or there is an immediate safety risk, call your local emergency number; if in US call 911. If you’re in need urgent emotional support contact your local emergency services or a trusted local crisis line; if in US you can call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). When in doubt, reach out to a clinician, caregiver support organization, or a trusted person in your Circle. |
Example Walkthrough (6 Weeks) — Project: Center & Circle
This is a fictional-but-realistic walkthrough showing how one person uses the ChatGPT project titled Center & Circle over several weeks. It demonstrates how Threads T.1–T.10 get used in practice.
Quick Map: How a Week Runs
- Always start in: T.0 Thread: Control Room
- Only switch threads when needed: T.1–T.8 (deep work), T.9 (Risk Register update), T.10 (Learning Log row)
- End every week by writing one row into: T.10 Thread: Learning Log
Week Summary Table (What got used when)
| Week Ending | Emphasis | Vital Signal(s) | Threads Used This Week | Micro-Experiment (7 days) |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2026-01-10 | Center | Sleep + Focus | T.0, T.1, T.2, T.10 | Phone in kitchen by 9:00 PM |
| 2026-01-17 | Center | Pain + Mobility | T.0, T.2, T.3, T.9, T.10 | 8-minute walk after breakfast |
| 2026-01-24 | Circle | Meaningful Contact | T.0, T.4, T.5, T.10 | One “warm touch” message every Tue |
| 2026-01-31 | Circle | Mood/Irritability | T.0, T.6, T.5, T.10 | Repair one friction within 24 hours |
| 2026-02-07 | Center | Sleep + Stress | T.0, T.7, T.2, T.9, T.10 | Stop-rule + scope reduction on 1 commitment |
| 2026-02-14 | Review | Stability Score | T.0, T.8, T.9, T.10 | Monthly review + next-version list |
Week 1 (Week Ending 2026-01-10) — First “Real” Run
Goal
- Establish baseline: run W.1 → W.7 once, even if imperfect.
- Use T.1 if the scan feels fuzzy; use T.2 to build “low-energy defaults.”
- Record first row in T.10.
T.0 (Control Room) — What I paste
Run the Weekly Workflow W.1 → W.7 with me: W.1 Scan: ask the 3 questions (draining / strengthening / quietly worsening), then summarize. W.2 Vital Signals: recommend 1–2 signals to track next week. W.3 Decision Point: choose Center vs Circle emphasis (1 sentence why). W.4 Micro-Experiment: propose ONE 7-day test (what/when/how to measure). W.5 Social Touchpoint: draft ONE 10-minute message in my voice. W.6 Risk Check: name #1 single point of failure + one barrier + one Plan B (for T.9). W.7 Finish: write one-line log: Signal → Change → Result. Keep it short and tactical.
W.1 Scan (My answers)
- Draining: Late-night scrolling; too many small errands; caregiver stress.
- Strengthening: Morning coffee + quiet; short conversation with a friend; one club task done early.
- Quietly worsening: Sleep drift (later bedtime); focus feels “foggy.”
W.2 Vital Signals (Chosen)
- Sleep hours (or bedtime consistency)
- Focus/clarity (simple 1–5 rating at noon)
W.3 Decision Point
- Emphasis: Center — sleep/focus drift is predicting instability.
W.4 Micro-Experiment (7 days)
- Phone in kitchen by 9:00 PM (charge overnight)
- Measure: “lights out time” + noon focus rating
W.5 Social Touchpoint (10 minutes)
- One warm message to a friend (no logistics, just connection)
W.6 Risk Check (light)
- Single point of failure noticed: “All recovery depends on sleep behaving.”
- Barrier: phone away
- Plan B: if sleep fails 2 nights, simplify commitments next day
T.2 (Basics) — Protect fundamentals
In T.2 I paste:
Help me protect the fundamentals: sleep, movement, nutrition/hydration, and meds/appointments (if relevant). Ask only what you need, then produce: 1) a simple daily checklist, 2) a “Low-Energy Default” version for bad days, 3) one small friction-reduction change for this week.
T.10 (Learning Log) — One row added
Week Ending: 2026-01-10 Vital Signal(s): Sleep / Focus Micro-Experiment (The Change): Phone in kitchen by 9:00 PM Result / Observation: 30 min extra sleep; focus improved Status: KEEP
Week 2 (Week Ending 2026-01-17) — Add Redundancy + First T.9 Entry
Goal
- Keep Center emphasis, but add one “Plan B” backup so life is less brittle.
T.0 — Highlights
- Draining: Pain flare; errands stacked.
- Strengthening: Walking felt good once started; sleep slightly better.
- Quietly worsening: Mobility/pain is affecting mood.
Vital Signals (Chosen)
- Pain level (0–10)
- Mobility (minutes walked)
Micro-Experiment (7 days)
- 8-minute walk after breakfast (every day)
- Measure: # days completed + pain rating at 5pm
T.3 (Redundancy) — Find single points of failure
In T.3 I paste:
Help me identify single points of failure in my life (health, home, tech, routines, money, caregiving, transportation). Then help me add small backups (Plan B’s) that reduce brittleness. Output a short risk list + fixes.
T.9 (Risk Register) — Add ONE row
In T.9 I paste:
Add this to my Risk Register: Pain flare-ups are reducing movement and increasing irritability. Ask me ONLY ONE question if needed. Then output ONE completed Risk Register row (same columns as my table) with a Review date.
Paste-ready Risk Register row (example):
| Risk / Fragility | Early Warning Signs | Prevention (Barrier) | Mitigation (Plan B) | Status |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Health: Pain flare reduces movement → sleep worsens | Pain > 6/10; walking skipped 2 days; irritability up | 8-min walk after breakfast + simple stretch | “Minimum walk” 3 min + heat/ice + reduce commitments that day | MONITOR (Review: 2026-01-24) |
T.10 (Learning Log) — One row
Week Ending: 2026-01-17 Vital Signal(s): Pain / Mobility Micro-Experiment (The Change): 8-minute walk after breakfast Result / Observation: 5/7 days; pain slightly lower by evening; mood steadier Status: TWEAK (aim for 6/7; add shoes-by-door)
Week 3 (Week Ending 2026-01-24) — Shift to Circle: Social Value + Scaffolding
Goal
- Warm the network before isolation becomes a problem.
Emphasis
- Circle — meaningful contact predicts stability this week.
Vital Signal
- Meaningful contact (one real conversation or supportive exchange)
Micro-Experiment (7 days)
- One warm touchpoint every Tuesday (10 minutes)
Help me define a reliable “value menu” I can offer others (skills, roles, contributions) that also strengthens my stability. Add boundaries so it doesn’t become overload.
T.5 (Social Scaffolding) — Map support + templates
Help me build a simple, reliable support structure: - inner/outer/institutions map, - “who to call” list, - a short “help menu” (what I can ask for / offer), - two message templates (check-in + ask for help), - one repeating social anchor. Keep it low-friction and specific.
T.10 (Learning Log) — One row
Week Ending: 2026-01-24 Vital Signal(s): Meaningful Contact Micro-Experiment (The Change): One warm touchpoint every Tuesday Result / Observation: Felt less isolated; got an easy “good to hear from you” reply Status: KEEP
Week 4 (Week Ending 2026-01-31) — Relationship Maintenance + Fast Repair
Goal
- Prevent small friction from becoming relationship drift.
Vital Signal
- Mood/Irritability (1–5 rating, evenings)
Micro-Experiment (7 days)
- Repair one friction within 24 hours (instead of stewing)
T.6 (Relationship Maintenance) — Rotation + repair script
Help me maintain relationships with a simple rotation schedule (who, when, how). Draft two quick check-in templates and one ‘fast repair’ script. Ask a few questions, then propose 5 small touchpoints and one weekend relationship reset.
Example “fast repair” script
Hey — quick note. I think I came across sharper than I meant to earlier. Sorry about that. I’m dealing with some stress and it leaked out. I value you, and I want us to be good.
T.10 (Learning Log) — One row
Week Ending: 2026-01-31 Vital Signal(s): Mood/Irritability Micro-Experiment (The Change): Repair one friction within 24 hours Result / Observation: One relationship warmed back up; less rumination Status: KEEP
Week 5 (Week Ending 2026-02-07) — Commitments Audit + Stop-Rule
Goal
- Reduce overload that harms sleep/stress.
Emphasis
- Center — sleep/stress wobble predicts instability.
T.7 (Commitments) — Stop-rule + scope
Help me choose 1–2 small projects/commitments that create meaning without destabilizing me. For each, define: “done,” the next tiny step, and a weekly cadence. Include a stop-rule to prevent burnout (if sleep or stress worsens, we reduce scope or pause).
Example stop-rule (paste-ready)
- If sleep drops below 6 hours for 2 nights OR stress is 4/5 for 2 days → pause or reduce scope for one week.
T.9 (Risk Register) — Optional row
| Risk / Fragility | Early Warning Signs | Prevention (Barrier) | Mitigation (Plan B) | Status |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Overload: Commitments expand → sleep collapses | Sleep < 6h for 2 nights; dread; irritability | Stop-rule + weekly “yes filter” | Reduce scope 50% for 7 days; cancel one non-essential obligation | ACTIVE (Review: 2026-02-14) |
T.10 (Learning Log) — One row
Week Ending: 2026-02-07 Vital Signal(s): Sleep / Stress Micro-Experiment (The Change): Stop-rule + reduce one commitment’s scope Result / Observation: Stress down; sleep steadier; less resentment Status: KEEP
Week 6 (Week Ending 2026-02-14) — Review + Renewal (Upgradeable Identity)
Goal
- Monthly review to refresh direction without overhauls.
T.8 (Review + Renewal) — Scorecard + keep/stop/start
Help me run a monthly/quarterly review to learn what’s working, retire what isn’t, and refresh goals. Include a simple scorecard, a ‘keep/stop/start’ list, and one renewal action.
Simple scorecard (example)
- Sleep stability (1–5)
- Pain/mobility (1–5)
- Meaningful contact (1–5)
- Load/capacity balance (1–5)
T.9 (Risk Register) — Monthly stale check (optional)
Risk Register check: Which one row in my Risk Register is most out of date? Update that row and give it a new Review date. Output the updated row paste-ready.
T.10 (Learning Log) — One row
Week Ending: 2026-02-14 Vital Signal(s): Stability Score (monthly) Micro-Experiment (The Change): Monthly review + one renewal action chosen Result / Observation: Clearer priorities; reduced thrash; one upgrade selected Status: KEEP